Monthly Archives: March, 2014

Caught

There was a man I’ve been talking to for about a week. He seemed like he’d be a good fit. Last night, we decided to move it to Google IM so we could talk in real time. It was a great conversation. He was interesting, could hold a conversation and could spell. I was really …

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Lame!

So, I was scheduled to have a Meet and Greet last night, but it didn’t happen. Actually, it was scheduled for the night before, but that didn’t happen, either. I think it’s for the best. First off, I’m a highly spiritual person. I believe everything happens for a reason. It’s kind of odd that the …

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Powerful

I get it. I finally get it. Being a woman gives me power. Being fat takes away my power, but being a women gives it back to me again. And it only took me 38 years to figure it out! As a fat chick, I am at the mercy of men. They are superficial (for …

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Pet Names

When I was married, my husband was much older than me. Much. As such, when he tried out the pet name “baby” on me once, I instantly grimaced and told him that I didn’t like it. It felt like he was using it as a put-down at the same time – like I was so …

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Growing

So, I realized this weekend that I’m being counterproductive. Honestly, I’m kinda okay with it. My Higher Power informed me that I was supposed to quit dating and focus on my manuscript. I was okay with it – I really didn’t have anyone in my world that I wanted to continue dating. It felt good …

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Not Amazing

So, I recently changed my online dating profile to reflect the fact that I’m looking for a FWB. Not shockingly, I have gotten about three times as many men contacting me as I did when I was looking for a relationship. Which, if you think about it, is kinda odd, kinda not. First there’s the …

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Collector

I’ve decided to become a collector. Oh, I’ve been collecting keyrings for decades (jeez, it always makes me feel old when I say crap like that!) No, I’ve decided to become a collector of men. Currently, I have two men in my life. And yet, I was home alone on Friday evening. Lame! So, I’ve …

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Light Skinned?

Something has come to my attention a couple of times lately, which I thought was odd. I do profile reviews on one of the dating sites I’m on. I help others clean up their grammar and the formatting of their profile (as well as content) so they might have more luck at finding love. The …

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Bad Person

Lately, I’ve started wondering if I’m a bad person. I try really hard to not be a bad person, but there are times I wonder if I’m inherently evil. I mean, if you have bad thoughts and feelings, but act good, are you still bad? Are you counted in the bad category based on your …

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Support

I am a care-giver. Not professionally or anything, but I kinda naturally give of myself to make those around me happier/more comfortable. Last night, a friend had had a bad day, so I went over to help lift his spirits. He felt badly asking it of me because he knew it meant I would be …

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