Monthly Archives: March, 2019
Bring on the ABCs
The last few days have been rough. Oddly, it’s been since Mr. Narcissist came home. Huh. Okay – let’s get the easy one out of the way. I ended things with J a few days ago. He just had too many of Mr. Narcissist’s mental health challenges, plus a few of his own. He claimed …
Mr. Aggressive Returns
A very long time ago, I went out with a man I named Mr. Aggressive. He recently found me again and reached out to me. Ugh! If you didn’t read the blog and don’t remember him, let’s just say that he earned his name. I like a guy who is confident, but cockey/arrogant is a …
Devout
There is a massive picture window at my house, looking out onto Lake Washington. I’m amazed at how much I enjoy that window and what it brings into our home. I look out of it far more than I expected to. Yesterday, I happened to look out when I saw a man standing across the …
J3
Well, last night was date #3. You know what that means. Actually, I’m a massive liar. J’s been nothing but a gentleman. I’ve made it clear that I want us to move slowly, and he has respected that. It’s been nice to just get to know him as a person without sex getting in the …
Not Fighting
Apparently, I have a lot to process as of late. The easiest way for me to process my emotions is to blog. So – you’re being inundated. Sorry! When Mr. Narcissist and I started back up again, I set down rules. I told him that I didn’t want the distance between us to be an …
Timing
Y’all know that I believe in a Higher Power. I believe things happen for a reason. I believe that “coincidences” might be my HP sending me a message. I try to keep my eyes open for things which might mean something. I like to think of it as being “faithful” instead of “superstitious.” That being …
Not Cracking… Yet
I seem to be in a quandary. I wasn’t planning this – honestly. I didn’t think this far into the future, and for that, I’m feeling really guilty. And kinda dumb. This was completely foreseeable, and yet I failed to predict it. J is getting quite attached. He actually mentioned moving… so that he could …
Go Away!
So, this guy reached out to me on the dating site, the other day. Chit chat, blah blah. He asked me a question, and I answered. We ended up here: As always, a man asked a question and then couldn’t handle the answer. Men have accused women of being too sensitive, but I firmly believe …
J2
I had date number two with J last night (obviously). It went really well. Far better than our first date. We were both more comfortable and relaxed. I don’t know if I’ve ever shared this memory with you. When I worked at a college (about 20 years ago) there was a young man (about my …
And Then I Miss Him
I try to only post one blog per day. Sometimes, I write more than one each day, but I set them to post to later dates (that happens more often than not). This blog and the one before it were written a couple of days ago. I actually had a great day yesterday, and a …
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