Monthly Archives: April, 2014
Aggressive
Since I’m down to just one FWB, I find myself growing attached to him. While I assume he’s feeling the same way, that’s all it is – an assumption. I’m not going to allow my feelings to get away from me and get my heart broken. It’s time to add another man to the rotation! …
Know Thyself
I saw this on Facebook today, and it reminded me of one of the phrases I hold near and dear: To me, the short version of this is “Know Thyself” which is a very important concept to me. After all, if I don’t know myself, how can I be my best self? I always think …
Fighting
I am not one for change. I fight it tooth and nail. Knowing that it’s usually good for me doesn’t mean I am willing to let go of that which is comfortable, and familiar. Mr. Socks and I have gotten really close. Far closer than FWB should get. He’s said a number of things lately …
Missing
I love being single. Almost everything about it brings peace and joy to my world. Not only can I stretch out in bed, but I don’t have to worry about any nocturnal sound which may emit from my body as I sleep. I can use the entire closet and both dressers. I can come and …
Self-Preservation
Today, I saw something on Facebook which is haunting me. I don’t like being angry or hateful, and yet this makes perfect sense to me. I am a good person – I work hard every day to be the best person I can be. Making others around me comfortable, easing tensions, and bringing joy are …
And Now One?
Men have been dropping like flies out of my life! Number Four made a very quiet exit and will not be allowed back in. I’m good with this since four seemed a little extreme. Mr. Shorty’s profile has disappeared again. I’m starting to get a complex! His profile keeps disappearing when we’re supposed to meet. …
Nope – Just Three
The other day, I thought I might add a fourth man to my collection. He didn’t make the cut. He and I chatted about a month ago. We had a Meet & Greet scheduled, but he cancelled the day of, saying there was a family emergency. And then he poofed (that’s an online dating term …
Holding my Tongue
Some people have no filter. They say whatever they think or feel. I, however, am a champion at holding my tongue. People have no idea what I really think of them. Take my co-worker for example. She’s a bitch. A cold-hearted, sharp-tongued bitch. I think it might injure her if she were required to be …
Fourth?!?!
So, I was pretty happy with having three FWB. It’s a good number. I couldn’t make my profile invisible, because that’s how two of them contact me, otherwise I would have. As a result of my profile remaining active, men can still contact me. A year ago, this wouldn’t have been a bad thing – …
Third
I’ve been talking with a guy for a few weeks, now. I’m going to name him Mr. Shorty. It’s kinda ironic because out of the three men I’m seeing, he’s the tallest. I’m calling him that because of his username. We had a Meet & Greet scheduled, but his profile disappeared a few days before …