Monthly Archives: August, 2019

Not Like He Did

Okay – here’s me being real. I’m finally, permanently ending things with my ex today. I’m finally getting all of my stuff out of his house. I told him that when I did that, I was never moving it back again. If we could fix it before I got my stuff out, great. We couldn’t. …

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Latest Tool

So, you know that I had to recreate my dating profile. When I did it, I kinda half-assed it. I couldn’t remember everything that I had written on the first one. I soon realized that I had forgotten to put the warning about jerks being featured on my blog. I was reminded very quickly. One …

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New Realizations

Did you read the other day where I said that I had accidentally closed my dating profile? I mentioned that I would just leave it unless Mr. Comic came back. He did, so I created a new profile (sigh.) It’s been enlightening! The first thing I noticed is that a got a whole new selection …

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I Met My Cousins!

For some reason, my father’s brother chose to raise his family in Florida. Since they rarely came up to Washington, and I’ve never been down there, I didn’t grow up with my cousins. Actually, I had only met one of them before, but I was too young and don’t actually remember meeting her. I’ve been …

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Slut

Mr. Comic and I were talking about words the other day, and I realized that definitions can change based on who is using the word, the time in history, and location (which I already knew.) There is a really hurtful word in American which means “cigarette butt” in another country. Holding two fingers up in …

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Few Prospects

I have to say, I’m kinda disappointed. The last time around when I was looking for FWB, the search was much easier. I very easily found some quality men who were like-minded and who were very good to me and for me. The only difference is that this time around, it has to be at …

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United We Stand

I know you’re surprised – I saw something on Facebook yesterday. Actually, this isn’t what I saw, but I wasn’t able to steal Bernie Sander’s video, so you’ll get the quote he used: As a white woman in America, the biggest threat to me personally is the fact that they’re attacking my reproductive rights. Since …

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Men Suck!

**I want to start by thanking those of you who reached out to me about yesterday’s post. I received some private messages, as well as on the comment on my blog. You were all brave to share your stories with me. Thank you!** I try to keep my posts positive, but I’m human, and I …

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Kinda Crushed

I need to warn you. What I’m about to talk about is Big Girl stuff. If you’re not comfortable with the workings of the female body, this blog isn’t for you. Since I was young, I’ve had horrible, horrible periods. I’ve had my period last for three weeks a handful of times. I don’t know …

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It’s Happening Fast!

So, you know I love autumn, winter, and Christmas, right? I usually get excited about it way earlier in the year than the average American. I try to keep it reined in as long as possible, but sometimes it’s fairly difficult. Actually, I’ve had a bunch of things shoving me toward the holidays. Maybe my …

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