The Ugly Truth
So, I went out with Snow Man last Wednesday. I had a wonderful time. I’m so mad about it! Why? Because he lives 2 hours away. And I hate driving. And I hate long distance relationship.
And, there are other reasons why he would not be my first choice. When we arrived, I looked over to see him getting out of his car. What did I see? Crack. And lots of it. Ew! He quickly hitched up his pants, but the damage had been done. And then, as we talked, he had a white glob of… something (not sure what) resting on his bottom lip. As he talked and his lips touched, the glob would stretch between his lips. Ew! And, he was overweight.
But, those things are all superficial, right? I mean, we had a really great time together. I hadn’t had a date that great in a long time.
Today, I had a date with someone else. It was painful. A really, really bad date. Before I went out with Snow Man, I had two dates which were both mediocre. The one today was agonizing. Did it only seem so bad because I had had such a great time with Snow Man?
And, if the guy from today contacts me again, how do I let him know I’m not interested? I’ve never had to say that to anyone before. It’s always just been mutual. At the end of our date, he said he’d like to see me again. I (silently) choked and replied, Yah – I’d like that.” D’oh!
I suck at dating. I just need to give up.
And yet, I contacted a guy today, asking when we could meet.
Ugh!
- Posted in: Dating
publicinhiding 
Some guys will say they’d like to see you again at the end of the date just because they think that is something you should say so it isn’t awkward. Some will say that to get a temperature reading on how the other person felt the date went. If that’s the case here, your hesitant response probably already warned him to not call again. Still, there are other times where the guy is completely oblivious to the fact that there wasn’t a connection and will still call. If this happens you can go with the “I’m busy” routine, but some guys will still persist. Your best bet is to be honest and just say that you didn’t feel a strong enough of a connection or that you are looking for something else. After that if he still contacts you, you can simply ignore all contact from them. Good luck! Dating really doesn’t have to be that hard- and can often be fun!
Thanks! I appreciate the help!
Crack is a deal breaker in my book. lol
lol. Yah, I almost called it over before it even began.